I've recently found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me. We have been together for almost 7 months now, and I am really hurt. He "claims" to be sorry and states if I give him one more chance things will be different. However, I don't want to look stupid in the future if he does cheat again. So my question is, how did you handle your similar situation and what was the outcome?
i forgave him, and over time my trust for him became even stronger... then, about a year ater... my heart was shattered again.
maybe your guy can change, but mine sure didnt, and it was the worscheating boyfriend girlfriendt feeling in the world.
Dear no matter how much you want him to change or love him, He is the one who would have to change. Its been my experience that most cheaters remain cheaters. Can you forgive him sure you can if you love deep enough. Can he change sure if he really loves you but then if he did he would not have cheated on you in the first place. Can the trust be rebuilt um now that's the really hard on. In my past experiences once the trust is destroyed it usually cannot be fixed. Only you can answer the last question and if your willing to forgive can you forget or move pastcheating boyfriend girlfriend it? I don't believe I could or would. I hope this helps ya. Best of luck in your decision hope you find peace with it.
Never happened to me but i would never forgive my girlfriend for cheating. if he can cheat on you after all thats happened in 7 months he'll probably do it again. he is only sorry that he got caught.
i would keep tabs on him ;)
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good luck!!
Forgive - possibly
Forget - never.
give him a chance. and give him a short amount of time to change his ways and if he doesn't move on to someone better.
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